Hey just read the post you have with your video and all the "older" guys giving you advice. were the same age and have the same problem (it seems) except me back home. When ever I do good or not in a tournament or come back to the dock after fishing a rough day ( A day they wouldn't go out on weather wise) I get a speech from them about safety.....lol Same all over the world...doesn't matter how well you prepare since we are younger "they know better" lol